He says it’s unattractive to me to be jealous

Dear Amy: My husband has girls from work who message him. Sometimes these are work related, and sometimes not.

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When I insist that I don’t like it, he says it’s nothing I should be worried about. He also says that it is unattractive for me to behave this way, that they are his friends, and that I need to get over it.

I know he’s flirtatious (whether he realizes it or not). Girls like him because he is such an attractive and nice guy.

If the situation were reversed and I was getting messages from men, he would hate it. I don’t give my phone number to other men. He is comfortable with this double standard.

I’m at my wits end because he doesn’t get it.

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