My husband and I have been together for 15 years. In the last two of them, he’s gone.
We have been living with the family for almost 10 years. At the beginning of the year, we finally got our place, but nothing changed.
He likes to drink his beer after work. I told him no, but he does anyway. I have caught up with lies about his drinking and the jobs he has given up over the years.
As long as I go with the flow, everything is fine. When I’m upset, he always promises to do better, but it never lasts long.