The internet hit the roommate after they got mad at the man for kissing their friend.
Published on Reddit’s r / AmITheA ** hole forum, a roommate under the anonymous username u / aitata3726 shared his story and received over 9,000 votes in favor and 7,000 comments on his viral post.
The original poster (OP) began their story by explaining that their colleague and friend “Jayden” and his daughter “Lia” had recently moved in with them. The OP described Jayden as “funny, intelligent, and cute.” Unfortunately for Jayen, he was forced to quit his job due to budget cuts.
After seeing him worried about the rent, the OP and he came up with a plan because they loved having Jayden and Lia around. After all, Jayden was responsible for all the housework, errands, and chores. After finding a part-time job, he continued to do most of the housework and paid a small amount of rent.
The OP explained where the conflict started: “My friends came several times and of course met him. Last weekend, I stopped a group of my friends. I thought it went great, but the next day Lia told me she saw Jayden kissing my best friend. I was really nervous and Jayden and I had an argument about it. I told him how betrayed I felt. He tried to say it was okay, that apparently the kiss was “not intended” and he did. I don’t say anything because “they didn’t know what that meant.” But it’s still wrong, I’m just doing enough for him to do this to me.
“I got angry and told him that he would have to leave if he only wanted to take advantage of my goodness. That I don’t want to live with someone who cheats on me like that. no big deal and I was crazy. He believes that “I have no right” to say anything about his love life, even though she is my best friend and I do so much for him. Our conversation did not work, but I spoke to my best friend and she agreed to withdraw. “
Jayden had been “cold” towards the OPs since their quarrel and told them that they planned to move out as soon as possible. They think it’s “his fault” because he shouldn’t be kissing OP’s friends.
In a recent edit of the post, OP confirms that they are not jealous or in love with Jayden. They think it was “rude” and “ungrateful” to do what he did.
Newsweek I contacted zu / aitata3726 for a comment.
How do you tell your roommate you want him to move out?
Are you in a similar situation to the OP where you want to kick your roommate out but don’t know where to start? According to rent.com, here are some ways to start a conversation about your roommate moving out:
- Be sure to think about it. Have specific reasons why you want them to leave. Also, try talking to your roommate while you sit down to see if you can work it out.
- When you’re ready, find the right time and place to talk.
- Take responsibility for your decision and avoid accusations.
- If possible, split the shared items equally.
- Take a look at your rental agreement. By law, you cannot kick a roommate out of a tenancy unless they are involved in a crime. Ask your landlord for more information on the legality.
Newsweek published several articles about roommates, including a schoolgirl who was beaten up for relying on her roommate’s alarm in the morning, and a man who was dragged on for telling her roommate that her style was “lazy and unattractive.”
“[You’re the a**hole] Jesus, you’re possessive of someone you’re not even with, ”wrote u / chill_stoner_0604, receiving the highest comment with over 23,000 in favor.
“[You’re the a**hole]”Said u / Educational_Race5679:” It looks like you wanted to build a family, so if you don’t skip a big detail you’re jealous and angry it’s not you. “
Asked U / Rastavaray, “[You’re the a**hole]. You don’t have your best friend. Jayden and yours [best friend] they are two consenting adults and free to do as they please. How can this be cheating? Figure what? Why would he want to live with such a drama queen?
“[You’re the a**hole]. Honestly, I would never understand that I was p*ssed off with a friend dating another friend until neither side knew someone else was interested and both sides were considered good people. As if I feel MORE comfortable when one of my friends is dating the other (when both people are known to be respected, we are not talking about people who are known to jump in here as a partner) because I trust my friends more than a stranger. I don’t understand what it’s like cheating without the known romantic feelings of any of the three people involved, “commented u / CorporateSharkbait.
“[You’re the a**hole]. You act as if he owes you adoration and love because you have been nice to him, ”remarked u / ncslazar7.
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