We’re literally sick of being blamed for our breakups

Dear Amy: I recently reconnected with a man I was engaged to, many years ago.


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We haven’t gotten together in person because we live several hours away from each other and are both in our 70s.

The problem is he blames me for our break-up 50 years ago! (By the way, his assumption is wrong.)


We love each other and spend hours texting together.

It’s a “virtual romance,” and we’re happy with it, but his constant reference to how I destroyed his life gives me a debilitating migraine, and I can’t function for 24 hours after that!


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