Woman applauded for telling mother-in-law she wants to be intimate with son

In a new viral post, the internet applauds a woman for taking a jibe at her mother-in-law, saying she wants to be intimate with her son.

published to A woman, u/Fun_Self_5904, shared her story under the anonymous throwaway account, Reddit’s infamous r/AmITheA**hole forum. The viral post has over 10,000 upvotes and 1,000 comments.

“So my (28f) husband (31m) had to spend two months in a different state for work,” the Redditor began, “He came back 9 days ago. I’m obviously thrilled he’s back And I miss him so much. I was hoping we could just spend some time with the two of us. Although his mom (56f) was about to come home. I was a little annoyed, but I know he’s going to be with his son. Was excited to be back. Although she never left.”

The original poster (OP) expected her mother-in-law to stay with them for a day or two, instead, she stayed for the full nine days that she was at home. Since she lives an hour away, she insisted on staying with them instead of at the hotel.

The internet has backed a woman taking a jibe at her mother-in-law, saying she wants some alone time with her son.
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She and her husband do not have alone time together because he is very clingy. Whenever they go out, she accompanies them or when she doesn’t want to go out, she lets one of them stay in the house with her because they would be “bad hosts”. When they want to watch some TV and hug, she’s always there. They cannot go out without her and have a romantic outing together.

Throughout their stay, the couple had indicated that they wanted him to go home, telling them that she wanted more time with their son. When the OP has had enough, she snapped.

“I tried to tell her that we wanted some alone time and she kept insisting that she join us. At the end I said and ‘Since you seem oblivious, I’ll state it frankly. I’m your son. Want to f**k. If you don’t want to see or hear you need to go.’ ,[I know] It’s not the best response ever, but I was disappointed.) He yelled at me anyway but eventually left. We finally got our ‘alone time,'” she wrote.

“Now she is blowing up both our phones. She is saying that I am disgusting and have no respect for her, her son or herself. She tells my husband that he should not be so rude to anyone and How dare he let me talk to him like this. I’m sure you get the idea. [I know] What I said was really unfair,” she concluded.

newsweek Contacted u/Fun_Self_5904 for comment.

In a recent update to the Post, she admitted to the Post that she should have told her husband to “step up” as he should have told his mom to leave. She also said that she understands that she fears offending her mother because she might be bad and wrote that she can “turn the family against her”, but agrees that she should be honest with her mother. need to be.

Are you dealing with a similar situation? A family member or friend will not leave your home when they have stayed longer than they are welcome? According to oureverydaylife.com, it’s not appropriate to directly tell your guests that you want them to leave, so try to leave subtle signs that it’s time to go home.

When you’re at get-togethers, try writing an end time on invites or the way you communicated with your friends. It’s also wise to make excuses, perhaps saying that you have to do some work or that you have to get up early the next day. If none of the options work, forgive them for leaving, but simply say it’s time for them to reach out. If possible, make the conversation humorous.

The Reddit community took the OP’s side and shared their thoughts in the comments section.

,[Not the a**hole], cross? Yes. A**holish? No. Why do you and your husband have no boundaries with this woman? You are both adults and letting him behave like naughty teens. She may insist on being with you all, it’s your home and it’s your choice who lives there and if you don’t want her there then don’t tell her,” u/petulaferri said in a top comment with 12,000 upvotes wrote.

“Frankly, your husband should have dealt with his mom on day one,” u/eastern_fox explained.

“If you can’t take a hint, you just get the answer. [Not the a**hole]”u/mmmSaucyPasta wrote.

,[Not the a**hole]But your husband shouldn’t have let mommy-darling fall on his shoulders,” commented u/DeathFindsAway.

,[Not the a**hole], You wanted time with your husband after he had left for a while. This is normal. Your MIL was invading your space and your personal time as a couple,” u/DC_Verse said.

U/Impossible-Pause3789 said, “[Not the a**hole], Guests are like fish. After a while they start to smell. If she were indeed a polite and decent person, she would 1) be asked to come and 2) leave before her reception. She relied on her version of ‘politeness’ (aka I never feel bad) to bully you into what she wanted. Sometimes, there’s no one out of it. You just have to be rude. Good on you for standing up for yourself!”

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